LOVE Q & A

I will ask a question and the next person who will reply to this thread will answer my question and he then will have to ask another question and the next to reply will have to answer the last question posted and so on and so forth..let's start.

When do we know that we are falling in love with the wrong person at the wrong time?

When the guy/gal has someone else in mind...

When can we consider infatuation turning to love??...

when deep in your heart you are not just longing to be with him/her but you want him/her for the rest of your life...


how would you describe your significant other?

Evil and gonna rot in hell! but i love him! damn it!


When is "enough" enough in love?

Aimee wrote:

Evil and gonna rot in hell! but i love him! damn it!

OT :

"Enough" is when you ALMOST lose yourself....


Where is the borderline between 'good friend' and 'possible boyfriend'?

somebody once told me that friendship means not stepping over the boundaries... a possible boyfriend would act as if there are no boundaries at all --- being so sweet and everything else that makes you feel like you have butterflies in your stomach.


how can you keep the love alive?

1. never be both be angry at the same time.
2. never yell each other unless the horse is on fire.
3. if on eof you has to win an argument. let it be your mate.
4. if you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
5. neglect the whole world, rather than each other.
.6. never bring up mistakes from the past
7. never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.


why does love continue to grow even if you get hurt?

no , if you are basicaly incompatible and chemistry not right. i.e. / in a relationship. then love is not enough it can make things quite difficult!!! charroot..


Do you believe in love at first sight?

yaP! yaP! yaP! Love at first sight is possible but it pays to take the second look!



Why is it easy to fall in love
and yet so hard to be loved back?

it's because of the gravitational pull of the earth...
in physics -- when you let something fall for a reason it's sooo damn easy -- jsut go push it.. (this is where you fall in love)... but when you let something fall without force at all, that thing will never fall, you either push it or maybe because it is already on the ground and you have to pick it up to a higher level to let it fall again (this is why it is so hard to make things fall or maybe let people fall for you /sob)...

nyahaha!!! the power of reasoning...

i'll change my questions kaha... why is it sooo difficult to forget your one true love?

aw aw aw aw aw..ehehehehe!! ingon ako lola aie..

In the first few days you will feel empty, rejected, devoid of life
itself, it's ok to cry...to grieve for your loss. But the world does
not end there my friend, as the saying goes "life goes on," and yours
does. They say that time heals all; I say it does not; it helps dull
the pain though. And I know as time goes by you will feel better. I
know it may seem a pale excuse or a ridiculous thought to you right
now, but you will know it to be true when the right time comes. One day
you will wake up, your eyes dry, your heart no longer aching as much as
it did before. Your image in the mirror will seem to be just right, nor
does the bed feel empty with just you and the pillows on it. You would
have filled the closet with new and better stuff than it had before.
The places you both frequent before will seem as before, filled with
life and interest. That day will come my friend, it may not be
tomorrow, nor the day after, but trust me it will come. And when it
does, I hope that you find a way to say to the next man who fell down
the path you just came out of, that if you survived that Hell, he sure
can too. So dude...welcome back to the world, smile you are not alone,
there are many of us the same. =)

What is the difference between loving someone and being inlove?

"It's easy to be 'in love' with someone that you don't have to plan for the future with or worry about finances with."

"In love" can mean a number of things. It's not "I love you" - it's more like a temporary state of mind. You daydream about possibilities but never actually have always the desire to act upon them. Meanwhile, when "loving someone", it means giving it your all for the sake his/her happiness. You see him/her as part of yourself and as the quote above says, plan a future with your partner, in the long run.


Is it better to lose a person we love by death or by infidelity?

neither really but infidelity just happens out of the blue, sadly its the person who is last to know who gets hurt.

Is it true you must love yourself before loving others?

if you have never love yourself, it would be impossible to impart that love with others... you may feel like it, but it is not called love, it is called the obligation to do the things you think you ought to do to that significant other...

wew!

how far should one go for love?

far enough that will not lose your beliefs.
far enough that you will still see yourself as a person worthy of respect.
far enough that you value others' welfare even as you value your significant other.
far enough that you and your significant other may never be *literally* become one.

Which is better or more important:
LOVE + HONESTY? or
LOVE + TRUST?

it actually depends on the situation, freya...
LOVE + TRUST...
there is this thing that when you love somebody, you also have to trust him/her. however, sometimes trust can be subject to abuse. when you trust so much, you should also expect that this trust will sooner or later be broken. in short, it's not always good to leave it all to trust...

LOVE + HONESTY...
the situation... maybe you tell him/her everything... where you go/ what you do/ where you've been to... and all of that stuff... but if he/she does not trust in you... still it's all useless. he/ she will never believe a word that you say. therefore, honesty is not always the key...

honesty and trust should go together... to have a smooth sailing relationship... ana lang. ^_^


why do people resort to a polygamous relationship?

Collect, collect and then select. To some, or perhaps, to many
liberated young men, this could be the most practical way of looking
for the best girlfriend. They court and date two, three, or more ladies
at the same time, and apparently choose who among those ladies
satisfies them most – the nerve of these male chauvinist pigs! What is
this, an audition? By doing this practice, men are being ignorant of
the consequences of their action. Ironically, they do not realize that
while they are enjoying yet another superficial habit, they lose three
of the most important things of their manhood: dignity, mystery, and
true love.

now you might just argue that we are not talking about married people
here... in fact, not just yet. But remember, a man who got used to
smoking, even if he got “over” it, would surely light a cigarette
occasionally for pleasure. What the man was so used to do when he was
not yet married is what he would still practice even after he ties the
knot with his bride. The point is, so that a man would not be tempted
of having other women aside from his wife in the future, he should be
forbidden into having other girlfriends aside from his partner as early
as he is still a boyfriend.

Moreover, this is not an issue of equality between men and women
anymore. But this is an issue about commitment. You see, when you
commit yourself to a relationship, you devote your love to that one
person alone. But if you venture to other romance other than your
partner’s, then you are not truly committed. And if there is no
commitment, there is no point to the relationship – for what is there
for both of you to work for?

how to reject someone nicely???

Here's How:

hOw many times u've cried becOz Of lOve?

soooo many times already....

sometimes, maypa matay na lang... T_T



who is your first love and why?

my mother and father , if not for them i would not exist

badz asa man question nmo?? hmpft..ako nlng!!


what is true love??

yehey... walay question si sadney....

my turn to ask....

WHERE IS THE LOVE?